
About the show
The Worst Girl Gang Ever is a real, honest emotive podcast that covers the heartbreaking subject of miscarriage, infertility and baby loss, expect honest conversations about unspoken experiences. Hosted by TWGGE founders Bex Gunn and Laura Buckingham, this show is a chance to break the silence and really open up the dialogue around the topic of miscarriage and pregnancy loss. No more shame, no more taboo – let’s ditch that for our children; the ones that will come, the ones that are and the ones that never came to be..

The Worst Girl Gang Ever is a real, honest emotive podcast that covers the heartbreaking subject of miscarriage, infertility and baby loss, expect honest conversations about unspoken experiences. Hosted by TWGGE founders Bex Gunn and Laura Buckingham, this show is a chance to break the silence and really open up the dialogue around the topic of miscarriage and pregnancy loss. No more shame, no more taboo – let’s ditch that for our children; the ones that will come, the ones that are and the ones that never came to be..
In this deeply moving episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever, we sit down with Laura, a courageous voice from a same-sex couple navigating the emotional and physical challenges of fertility treatment, IVF failure, and recurrent miscarriage.
Laura shares her powerful story – from choosing a sperm donor and enduring invasive procedures, to experiencing three missed miscarriages, including a rare identical triplet loss.
Whether you’re undergoing IUI, considering IVF embryo transfer, or seeking solidarity after pregnancy loss, Laura’s journey offers rare insights into the complexities of queer family planning. Her resilience through a harrowing four surgeries, the psychological weight of trying again, and the nuanced grief of fertility trauma will resonate with anyone who’s felt isolated in their path to parenthood.
In this episode, we discuss:
Same-sex parenting and fertility planning decisions
Choosing a sperm donor and accessing sperm banks in the UK
The emotional and financial toll of IUI vs. IVF
Subchorionic hematoma explained during early pregnancy
Coping with miscarriage after IVF
Genetic testing (PGTA) and low ovarian reserve concerns
Recurrent pregnancy loss and retained products of conception (RPOC)
Partner dynamics in LGBTQ+ fertility struggles
Transitioning roles: from genetic parent to emotional support partner
This conversation is essential listening for LGBTQ+ couples exploring fertility options, anyone navigating private fertility treatment in the UK, women experiencing recurrent miscarriage and IVF grief, supporters, partners, and healthcare professionals seeking insight into the mental toll of assisted conception
You are not alone. If you’re facing a similar battle, Laura’s story will provide the compassion, community, and clarity you need.
About The Worst Girl Gang Ever
The Worst Girl Gang Ever is a real, honest, and emotive podcast that covers the heartbreaking subject of miscarriage, infertility, and baby loss. Expect raw conversations about unspoken experiences, hosted by TWGGE founders Bex Gunn and Laura Buckingham. This show aims to break the silence and open dialogue around miscarriage and pregnancy loss. No more shame, no more taboo—let’s change the narrative for future generations.
Support and Resources:
The Worst Girl Gang Ever Foundation – Live Brunch and Podcast Recording
Come join us for a fun-filled morning at Big Creative Training Campus! We’re hosting a live brunch and podcast recording where you can meet the hosts and be part of the action. Expect laughter, good food, and empowering conversations with a side of sass. Don’t miss out on this unique opportunity to be part of The Worst Girl Gang Ever Foundation community in person. Grab your tickets now!
Lunch Time Support Sessions
We are running FREE drop in sessions for ANYONE that needs them. The session will run from 12-1pm GMT you can just come drop in at any point during that time slot.
Our book
We are here to tell you that you are entitled to grieve, and that your grief is not disproportionate to your loss. We are here to oxapen up the dialogue around miscarriage, so we don’t perpetuate the shame, judgement and isolation so many of us feel following pregnancy loss. We are here to equip you with knowledge, tools and guidance to support and help you in whatever way you need.
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